Saturday, January 31, 2009

Friends will become a boss in this friendship

When no words are not talking about a friend that one day all of a sudden become your boss, you are calm and accept or at a loss, your friendship will exist?
Wang Fang (26-year-old company employee): the beginning of the year just to work, when I do things very carefully, for fear of offending the company’s predecessors. Even then, do not know for what, I was subjected to the exclusion of others, to that end, daily time in the unit have become torment.
I attended a health club, where I know Sammy, we are able to talk to, I also own the hearts of all the unpleasant told her, quickly, both of us have become intimate friends. At her suggestion, I quit the idea of moving. After a while, her company’s business expansion, the need to recruit a group of people, Sammy said she would recommend I have done. I think the kinds of feelings for another environment, coupled with that of wholesale jewelry this friend, I will soon enter a new role.
In this way, I was handing in his resignation, skip the Sammy’s company. Thought that since there are light heart, but slowly found that situation is not as optimistic as I imagined. Usually in the health club, Sammy is a dynamic person who loves, but in the flat, she is rarely willing to run the next race, the first thing I called for help, even if it is something I do. Due to face, I never care about her, but she used to, I almost became her full-time secretary. A regular meeting, the boss commended the cases I have done, at the same time criticized the program Sammy. At that time, I felt that Sammy does not look at my eyes. Sure enough, since then, she just treated like a stranger to me, as if we had completely forgotten friendship. My feelings are involved in endless among depressed, but this time, I could not even tell a person is gone.
Zhengfang: Wood (network name): If he became my boss, of course, is better than my place. But I do not think that it will degenerate friendship. Working hours, he was boss, working hours, he was a friend. I think he will not because it is a boss and I think that the high-class, I will not because he was the boss and find it necessary to groveling.
Anti-side: ice Campanula do: as a friend to become boss of this thing, I have not experienced, but one thing is sure, the relationship between subtle changes will happen. Because I have experienced: from students to become colleagues after their friendship has costume jewelry a qualitative change. I and fellow students in the university is no, then do not say good friends, four years down the accumulation of friendship in a short period of working with two or three months completely disappeared.
Vocational expert ideas: the relationship between the lower and upper or vocational some good, if the relationship between superiors and too dense, narrow circle’s reputation did not say, even if the ability to rely on personal achievements in the eyes of others is just not fair; if you have a superior-subordinate relationship Micronesia is not conducive to the management and company policy. Even a friend at the same level, whether or not in the same department, but also to friends and normal work processes, the division of labor and treated separately from company policy.
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